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October 01 The Bankindustry and MeDear Friends, Family, and my Legislatures, In 2006 I was refinancing my home for personal reasons. The company that made my loan hired their own appraiser who assessed my home’s value at 187K. This just four years after I had purchased this home for 90K. That is over 100% increase in value in only four years. I was flabberghasted that the appraisal came back so high and I should have listened to the little voice in my head that said, wait a minute, something just aint right here. But I did not. I gambled my shelter, my home, my little piece of paradise on a small lake, in a wonderful community in Florida. A modest home which I knew, and I am sure the bank, the appraiser, the underwriter, the insurance company, and anyone else who would have scrutinized my loan would have known was not worth 187K, but more probably was worth about 125K. The loan was made for 153K and it did not take too long for my house of cards to fall apart. I was house poor and I could not afford to make my payments. The bank foreclosed and they now own the home. The housing market tanked as scores more citizens like me watched their house of cards fall and they also lost their homes. These banks do not deserve taxpayer dollars to allow them to continue loaning money backed with unrealistically valued collateral. No more than I deserve to have the title to my little piece of paradise given back to me. I am ashamed that I accepted that loan even though my “Jimminy Cricket” was practically hollering at me not to get in so deep. I must live with the devastation this has caused my credit. So too must the banks that purchased notes that were not properly backed. This should be the end of No Doc loans. This should be the very last of the 6K closing cost loans on 10K equity, which are nothing more than smoke and mirror loans. This Congress acted WELL when it did not approve a 700 Billion dollar mortgage loan company take-over. Our US Constitution does NOT have a clause in it that says the Congress will help when banks make poor judgments over and over again. We can’t always look to Uncle Sam when we make a mistake. Sometimes we have to feel the pain to learn from our mistakes. If this Congress does anything, I hope it is that they make it a criminal activity to overvalue any property in such a gross way as my own property was valued. That is probably already a law but there are probably so many suits out there that would be facing time than our Government has the money to prosecute. I have your emergency legislation for you; Immunity granted to any banking insiders who will come forward and tell the truth about how this mess happened. Let the stock holders hold the CEO’s and the rest of the Board Members accountable for their profound loss in stock value; not their fellow tax payers. No one forced them anyone to invest in the stock market; no one forced me into that loan. We learn from our mistakes and we apologize when we are wrong, and we do not hide the truth and hope the Government will pour money on our faults. We live in a Republic form of Government. We are NOT a socialist society. We must take personal responsibility for our errors. I support every one of our Congressmen and women who voted against this unconstitutional bandaid. God Bless the USA. Sincerely, To comment please go here: thanks July 30 Granny Panties?My old boyfriend used to tease me saying I wear "Granny Panties" Well I don't anymore...
I thought that wearing a thong would reaklly feel like I had dental floss where the sun don't sine, but it is actually VERY comfortable! My pantie lines do not show anymore.,
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July 09 seduce him or herSource: <a href='http://www.californiapsychics.com'>California Psychics</a><br><br><p>Human beings have been concocting ways to woo our lovers since the dawn of time. In many thousands of years since, one would hope we'd have come a long way from dragging our mates by the hair across the cave for some sexy time. However, the unfortunate truth is that many of us haven't advanced all that much in this arena. <br><br>Sure, the hair pulling may have given way to a tap on the shoulder before bedtime, a nervous offer or an awkward kiss that leads to even more awkward sex, but the fact remains that many otherwise modern people struggle in the seduction department. And the problem isn't necessarily that we don't know what to do - it can also be that we're just too shy to actually do it! </p> <p></p> <p>Whatever your current sexual experience is, if you're looking to perfect the dark side of seduction - and drive your lover wild with desire, have we got good news for you! It doesn't take much to take it up a notch in the bedroom (or down as it were!). A hotter sex life begins with going beyond flowers and candy to explore (ah-hum) in the dark. <br><br>And don't worry - exactly how dark you're willing to go is up to you!<br><br><strong>Shhhh...</strong><br>If you're particularly shy, the whole idea of sharing a secret may sound daunting. But don't worry, you don't have to dress up in latex, role-play dominatrix and tie your lover to your bed to reveal one (though if you're feeling game, go for it!)… Exploring the dark side of seduction begins with delving deeper into your desires and then sharing them with your mate. So, to open the door to something steamier, start off by sharing a sexy secret… something you've thought about, fantasized about or might even like to try in the bedroom. You may find they'll respond in kind, and at the very least, you'll set their mind reeling all day. Plus, delving deeper, darker and yes, dirtier is practically guaranteed to bring you closer, which is exactly what great sex is supposed to do, right?<br><br><strong>Play set designer<br></strong>Atmosphere is everything. And while you may not want to paint your bedroom "bordello red" just yet, a few well-placed items can do wonders for both of your imaginations - and libidos. So, whether it's new bedding, soft lighting, a trail of rose petals leading to the bed or a riding crop placed prominently on their pillow doesn't matter. Determine what message you want to convey, and dress your set accordingly (read: bedroom, dining room, backyard, closet or wherever you intend to play the seducer). Seduction is all about theater, after all, and it's time for you to become the director of your own play!<br><br><strong>Send a message</strong><br>Lastly, if you want to make your lover think of you all day in the best possible way - leading to a saucier experience when next you two meet - consider sending a message of the suggestive sort. The power of surprise can never be understated in this arena and when your text, email or a hidden, handwritten note hits their proverbial inbox, the shockwaves will be lasting. Just how naughty you get is up to you. For beginners, a little compliment can soft sell the sexy suggestion. If you're feeling bold and adventurous, however, direct orders may be the best way to go. <br><br>With these three simple suggestions, we hope you will enjoy exploring you and your lover's dark side - no matter where it takes you.</p> <div style="PADDING-RIGHT: 4px; BORDER-TOP: #c9d9d9 1px dotted; PADDING-LEFT: 4px; FONT-WEIGHT: bold; PADDING-BOTTOM: 10px; MARGIN: 10px 0px; PADDING-TOP: 10px; BORDER-BOTTOM: #c9d9d9 1px dotted"><!-- ADD COPY BELOW -->Do you need help getting closer to your lover? Let a psychic guide you. <!-- ADD COPY ABOVE -->Call <span style="FONT-SIZE: 16px; COLOR: #d33d26">1.800.573.4830</span> or <a href="click">http://www.californiapsychics.com/c/c.aspx?lid=103258">click here</a> now.</div> June 29 Flea-Bay your life or sell your home with you includedSome days I could just run away... These people are feeling similarly... Read this: Then post a comment
The year 2001 was a boom time for said experimentation. Keith Obadike auctioned his “Blackness,” stating in the item description, “This heirloom has been in the possession of the seller for twenty-eight years.” Eryk Salvaggio auctioned his “personal hatred.” And John Freyer sold everything he owned on eBay, then visited everyone who bought his stuff. These artists used eBay in a way it wasn’t intended for, but in a way that’s interesting. Plus, it made us think about social constructs on the Internet. These days, we don’t have to think about social constructs on the Internet, because we’re living them. We hook up, we break up, we sell our junk. This guy in Australia, he’s doing it all at once. The big difference is that the art projects were fiction, and everyone knew ahead of time that they wouldn’t end in a dark way. We watch Usher’s experiment because we really don’t know, just like he may not know, the ultimate goal. Even if he gets rid of all his stuff, he can get more. It’s the “life” part that’s compelling. Tell someone unfamiliar with the story, “This guy is auctioning his life on eBay,” and they’ll react in one of two ways. A) “If this guy’s life is so miserable, why would I pay for it?” B) “That’s HORRIBLE!” (Oh yeah, and maybe C) Didn’t someone already do that?)
and the beanie baby guy" Let me begin by explaining some very important details, this way I do not get 100's of silly emails asking me to photograph the hind end of some stuffed animals. I DO NOT KNOW crap about these things. This belonged to my ex-wife who had about a 1000 of these Beanie Babies and when she moved, this one box of these got left behind, and now I am selling the goofy little things. Whatever money I make from them will be spent at the local Home Depot on tools and other cool stuff. I do not know which of these babies is retired or new, or whatever. I will list them in no particular order. I will tell you what its name is on the tag, if it has a plastic box or something. All these critter have been stored indoors, and are from a non-smoking home. Again, please do not send me emails asking me to photograp this or that. I am starting the auction at $10.00 and at that price I figure you all can take a chance. I understand from a friends wife that people are afraid to get fakes. FAKES? Fake plush toys? I was amazed. I thought people forged money, not childrens toys. Well I can only say, that 99% of these goofy toys were bought with my money, from eiter the local Hallmark Store, or one of the dozen or so Southern Craft/ collectibles stores I had to go to on a weekly basis buying these ridiculos toys years ago. Happy Bidding! Please take these critters from me so I can buy tools.
A very kind Ebayer wrote me an email and said the following:
AND EVEN A WOMAN SELLING HER HOME WITH HERSELF INCLUDED"
PALM BEACH GARDENS, Fla. - She's tried night clubs and online dating sites, but now a 42-year-old single mother is looking for love where everyone else's heart is breaking — the real estate market.
After a year of trying to sell her four-bedroom home and eight years of singledom, Deven Trabosh is offering her South Florida home and a shot at marrying her on the Internet
"I'm struggling...I don't want to lose my house and I want to find somebody," said Trabosh, who changed her name in the ad to Traboscia to keep people from finding her in the phone book. "So I came up with this dream plan because I've always dreamt about being a fairytale princess."
She whips out her laptop to show off a picture of Claudio, a handsome Italian wine and cheese taster, who she's been corresponding with since he responded to the ad. Seated on a white leather love seat in her living room, she giggles almost girlishly about him. They're hoping to meet in Miami in a few weeks.
She's gotten criticism, too. Her 21-year-old daughter Haley says she just wants her mom to find love, but her 14-year-old daughter says her mother is embarrassing her. Other have e-mailed to say she's selling herself short. June 19 Chad Langford MURDER ...Not SuicideA long time ago when I lived in Huntsville, Al. I was driving down I-55 listening to the radio and noticed a lot of official cars entering the arsenal. On the radio the announcer stated that there had been a MURDER at Redstone.
By the next morning the MURDER was ruled a suicide. despite the fact that there were obvious signs of a struggle, the victims hands were bound and his uniform's "missing buttons" were over 6 feet away from his body and on the other side of the vehicle door. There was a LOT about that case that stank and so I complied all the reports and my recollection of what I heard on the radio the night this happened and I sent it all to "Unsolved Mysteries"
They looked into this story and they told me that this wound up being one of the longest segments they ever ran, primarily due to the research, articles, and contacts I gave them upon initial contact.
Today I found this related article Read on:
40 SUICIDE RULINGS ARE CHALLENGEDPublished: December 20, 1993
Despite evidence suggesting that some deaths were homicides, military investigators concluded that the deaths of 40 soldiers at American bases around the world were suicides, The Philadelphia Inquirer reported today. The newspaper said that in reaching their conclusions the investigators misquoted witnesses, failed to perform routine forensic tests and lost or destroyed evidence. The Inquirer said it had checked documents in the 40 cases after it was contacted by the soldiers' families. Nineteen of the cases were also reviewed by four retired military investigators, who said the evidence did not support the official rulings of suicide, the newspaper said. Spokesmen for three military investigative agencies said their investigations were thorough and professional, and they disputed assertions that agents had tailored evidence. A Question of Expedience But Ronald F. Decker, a former Air Force criminal investigator, said the military often uses suicide rulings to close nettlesome cases. "An unsolved homicide is a terrible thing to have on the books," he said. "So they close them out as suicide." Self-inflicted deaths are the third-leading cause of death in the peacetime military, behind accidents and illness, according to figures provided by the Department of Defense. From October 1979 to June 1993, the military ruled 3,375 deaths as suicides, compared with 1,460 homicides, the figures showed. Among the American civilian population in a typical year, the newspaper said, there were roughly 8 homicides to every 10 suicides. The cases reviewed by the newspaper included that of Chad Langford, an Army military policeman. Army investigators ruled that he shot himself to death inside his car near an Army arsenal in Alabama on March 12, 1992. The Inquirer said the investigators could not find Mr. Langford's fingerprints on the gun that killed him, nor could they determine if he had fired a gun. Unidentified fingerprints were found on his radio and handcuffs, which were found hanging by his left wrist. Cords were tied around his ankles and neck. In many cases, the soldiers were under investigation for policy violations or had complained about life in the military, the Inquirer said. Ten victims had told relatives they discovered drug trafficking or weapons smuggling, the newspaper said. Last summer Congress asked the Pentagon to review 14 cases in which suicide rulings were disputed by victims' relatives. In November, Congress passed a bill requiring the Defense Department to review its method of investigating military suicides. SOURCE: http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=9F0CE4D9103CF933A15751C1A965958260 The New York Times Archives. Someone do something about this please. June 09 My Gosh just LOVE it here...If I did not live here I would Vacation here.
I can't believe the weather here, it is beautiful like 90% of the time... LOVELY 72 degrees. When I wake up and see that georgeous blue sky I put on my Julie Andrews accent and say, The hills are beckoning me, I feel them pulling me . . .
There was a Regga ish fiesta Del Sol in Solano this weekend, there was my pool league, there were critters to examine in the day in the lagoons, there was bootie to shake on the dancefloor at night.
BLASTTT!!! I like the Kraken, but that is only cuz no ne there cares about your hair, Go as you are and drink cheaper.
I checked out a few other places this weekend but the beach was beckoning so I hung out at a campsite drank beer and sang along with an acoustic player until the sun rose. Wow, what a blast. However Sunday night and I am paying for the all nighter.
Check out my blog, write me, come to San Diego and see the beauty, but please do not litter.
Thanks! June 04 Redwings Win Stanley BackJune 02 A Legend I knew has passed. I will miss you Bo!
JACKSONVILLE, Fla. Bo Diddley, Ellas McDaniel, died Monday after months of ill health. He was 79. Diddley created the famous clave known as "Shave and a haircut... two bits". I personally met Mr Diddley several times. He was, like me, outgoing and easy to talk to. We hit it off and he spoke with me for hours and hours one summer night in Florida. We talked about racism, the Middle East, and of course our mutual true love, music. I found him to be a very interesting person, quite conservative in his views. He had a way of making me feel like I knew him forever. The world is a little dimmer today without Bo Diddley in it. Bo is in a better place now that his Lord has called him home! God Bless Bo Diddley!
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May 30 Way to go Conndie!!!Condoleezza Rice enlists in Kiss Army fan club
May 30, 2008, 8:15 AM EST
The Kiss Army fan club has an enthusiastic new recruit: Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice. Rice was in the Swedish capital Thursday for an international conference on Iraq. Kiss had a sold-out concert to play Friday. "I was thrilled," Rice said of her late-night encounter with Kiss frontman Gene Simmons and bandmates Paul Stanley, Eric Singer and Tommy Thayer in the executive lounge of the Sheraton Hotel where they signed autographs and handed out backstage passes and T-shirts to her staff. "It was really fun to meet Kiss and Gene Simmons," she told reporters, noting that they seemed well-informed about current events. The band had asked if she could stop by after she finished dinner with the Swedish foreign minister and Rice readily agreed, she said. Rice, a classically trained pianist, said she has eclectic musical tastes ranging from Beethoven to Bruce Springsteen. Hard rockers such as Kiss are included in the mix, and Rice said her favorite Kiss tune is "Rock and Roll All Nite." But, Rice conceded, she has never seen the band in concert. ——— May 26 Roommate NeededRoommate needed in Rancho Bernardo Condo’. I have a spare room that needs fillin’. I recently moved here from the deep south and what sticker shock on apartments here! ((OMG!!)) So I have a spacious spare bedroom with only a bed in it. I am seeking a roommate. Smoke is fine. If smoke bothers you please skip this ad as I do not intend to quit. The rent is weekly unless we work something out. $200 a week covers rent, electric, water, garbage, phone and internet. For $5. You can join the nearby fitness / recreation center. One week deposit and rent paid in advance, perfect for TDY travelers, much cheaper than hotel. No dogs or cats as there is a dog installed already. She is a Pekingese. There is a nice patio area, large kitchen and living room. Willing to share groceries / shopping / cooking with roommate if desired. Prefer male ‘cuz girls always use my perfume & make-up and wear my clothing; not to mention, flirtin’ with my dates…. Straight or not, I do not judge. I am a classic rock divorce’, pretty laid back and easy going. http://lorindellia.spaces.live.com/ ß METhanks for looking. Call 858.673.2068 May 20 Hello San Diego, Are you Ready for the MILF of the Year?Hi there San Diego!
Well I am in my new diggs here in San Diego; technically a lovely neighborhood called "Rancho Bernardo" and I love it here.
Lots of SH&* happening in my divorce case, I won't bring up right now, don't wanna dampen my mood...
My Dizzy Dog arrives on Thursday, coming via Chicago instead of Dallas to keep her, Hopefully, cool. I hope my roomate gets her doggy downers. She will freak out sitting for hours alone in a cargo hold... Poor baby.
No phone call from my darling children for Mother's day; guess i have been replaced by Jill, the Pill, as my son calls her... it is ok, one day they will remember who gave birth to them, and that it hurt A lot... April 28 Men Secrets, SUrpRISE, we women already knew this! (well I did)I was in the ninth grade when I learned a vital lesson about love. My girlfriend at the time, Amy, was stunningly cute, frighteningly smart and armed with a seemingly endless supply of form-fitting angora sweaters. And me? Let's just say I was an adolescent Chris Robinson to her budding Kate Hudson -- and well aware of my good fortune. Then one day, as we stood in line for a movie at the mall, Simone Shaw, junior high prom queen, sauntered by. Suddenly Amy turned to me. "Were you looking at her?" she asked. "Do you think she's pretty?" My mind reeled. Of course I was looking at her! Of course she was pretty! My God, she was Simone Shaw! I paused for a second, then decided to play it straight. "Well, yeah," I chortled. Five days later our breakup hit the tabloids (a.k.a. the lunchroom). There comes a time in every man's life when he discovers the value of hiding the grosser parts of his nature. He starts reciting the sweet nothings you long to hear: "No, honey, I play golf for the exercise." "No, honey, I think you're a great driver." "No, honey, I wasn't looking at that coed washing the car in the rain." We're not lying, exactly. We're just making things...easier. But Glenn Good, Ph.D., a relationship counselor, disagrees, and maybe he has a point. "These white lies are pretty innocent, but they can turn confusing," he says. "Many women think, If he's lying about himself, is he also lying about something else? Is he having an affair? To establish trust you have to tell the truth about the innocuous stuff." And so, in the interest of uniting the sexes, we've scoured the country for guys willing to share the private truths they wouldn't normally confess. Some are a bit crass. Some you've always suspected. Some are surprisingly sweet. (Guys don't like to reveal the mushy stuff, either.) But read on, and you may discover that the truth about men isn't all that ugly. Secret #1: Yes, we fall in lust 10 times a day -- but it doesn't mean we want to leave youIf the oldest question in history is "What's for dinner?" the second oldest is "Were you looking at her?" The answer: Yes -- yes, we were. If you're sure your man doesn't look, it only means he possesses acute peripheral vision. "When a woman walks by, even if I'm with my girlfriend, my vision picks it up," says Doug LaFlamme, 28, of Laguna Hills, California. "I fight the urge to look, but I just have to. I'm really in trouble if the woman walking by has a low-cut top on." Granted, we men are well aware that our sizing up the produce doesn't sit well with you, given that we've already gone through the checkout line together. But our passing glances pose no threat. "It's not that I want to make a move on her," says LaFlamme. "Looking at other women is like a radar that just won't turn off."
April 26 Sex Starts Post Divorce- This sums me up.... I know what i want, and I ask for it.After her divorce eight years ago at age 42 that theory was quickly, uh, laid to rest. She calls sex with her current boyfriend, "wonderful, healthy, fantastic." The reason? "I just lost my inhibitions," she says. Suzy is no anomaly. Many women whose 20s and 30s were a stressed-out blur of mating, childrearing, and career-building didn't really start paying attention to their bodies as more than curvy hood ornaments until life slowed down -- or changed completely. In the '60s and '70s, the influential sexuality researchers Masters and Johnson were the first to bring attention to the notion that sex begins at 40. More recently, a 1999 University of Chicago study revealed that females aged 40 to 60 had fewer sexual dysfunctions (i.e., lack of interest, performance anxiety) than younger women. Psychologist Dr. L.B. Wish explains, "My baby boomer aged clients who experienced a late sexual blooming typically did so after divorce or widowhood." The psychologist continues, "These events freed them emotionally. Women who sought or stumbled into new relationships discovered their sexual selves." Why did these women find it utterly impossible to unearth their sensual nature while married? According to Dr. Wish, "Sex has long been the arena where couples express their relationship anger, hurt, and disappointment by withholding, turning off, or tuning out. A new relationship wipes the slate clean."
Nancy Michaels spent her 19-year marriage being sexually rejected by her husband. The Massachusetts mother of three explains, "I'd literally only had one sexual relationship prior to meeting him in college, so I wasn't very experienced. Having my life partner, who I found very attractive, turn to Internet porn rather than to me was very painful." The natural reaction in a case like this is to shut down. Now 44 and divorced, Michaels, the creator of matchgonewrong.com, has checked her libido out of the lost and found. Happily involved with a man who is teaching her that the phrase Oh My God can fit a situation outside a sanctuary, she says, "In some ways I feel I wasted two decades, but being older and wiser also makes it easier to not just know what I want, but to ask for it." A major factor behind Nancy's sexual renaissance is that she no longer feels judged and inadequate. "I was never going to measure up to the fantasy women my [ex-]husband had in his mind. Sex with the right person -- someone who accepts you -- is not just freeing but safe."
The author's research revealed that it takes many women until their 40s to unshackle themselves from the ingrained pattern of putting the man's needs first...and perhaps not feeling worthy of having an orgasm. Fay, who is 52, says, "One woman [interviewed for her research] faked it for four-and-a-half years so as not to bruise her husband's ego. Another has only now, after her divorce, found the courage to confess to a lover that she needs oral sex to fully enjoy herself." As many of us have heard before, communication is key. Ellen Sayles, a 41-year-old Pennsylvania radio producer, says, "My boyfriend and I shared all our secrets and insecurities right up front before we began having sex." She admits, "John and I had both been betrayed by our spouses, so trust is a huge non-negotiable for both of us." That she and John share a depth of trust "like no one else before in [her] life" allows her to "let go" while in bed with him. Some 40-plus women are able to let go in a way that would have made their younger selves blush. At 47, Desi Foxx, a former partner in an investment firm, has recently become a porn star. Twice-divorced and living in North Miami, Foxx says, "Growing up in a religious household, I was sexually repressed. I don't want to marry again. I don't really even want to date. I'm a cougar: I have my pick of young male studs. I'm fulfilled at work -- the movies are my sexual outlet." It's safe, as everyone is tested; and since her lovemaking is primarily confined to the set, she is spared "the messiness of relationships." While Foxx's experience seems extreme to most of us, she is not alone in realizing that life is short -- so why live according to repressive rules? Increasingly, women are waking up at midlife and asking, Is this all there is? I want something else. Remember, it truly is never too late. Dr. Wish, the psychologist who works primarily with a baby boomer clientele, laughs, "I had an 80-year-old woman in my office who said, 'I'm here because I'm not getting any younger and I want to have an 'organism' before I die." Rock on, sister.. About Sherry Amatenstein
Sherry Amatenstein, LMSW, is the author of Love Lessons from Bad Breakups and Q&A Dating Book. She runs dating seminars around the country and does private coaching -- not to help singles marry in 60 days, but to uncover their blocks. She has given relationship advice on the Early Show, Regis, Inside Edition, CBS News, VH1, BBC, and many other programs. Her philosophy is that the most important relationship you'll ever have is with yourself. Originally published on MORE.com, February 2008. April 11 Sex and Women... Multi Orgasmic (Like me)"multiple orgasms. The fact is that women’s bodies were designed to be multi-orgasmic. That’s right, satisfaction again and again – and again – can be yours. Here’s how to get into the right mindset, train your body and enlist your current or future partner to maximize this woman-only perk…
As Dorian Solot, sex educator and co-author of I Love Female Orgasm (Marlowe & Company, 2007), puts it: “Some women's bodies have multiple O's more easily than others, so while some have surfed waves of orgasms from the very first time, others need some extra advice to learn how. Women's sexual responses vary so dramatically – what comes easily to one woman may be quite a struggle for another.” Pay attention: discover your orgasm threshold – the wonderful moment when you are on the brink of orgasm but haven’t gone over the edge. Usually we don’t notice this moment because we are so excited about what’s going to happen next. But pay attention – it’s the key to experiencing multiple orgasms.
To recognize your orgasm threshold during masturbation, pay attention to your arousal level from start to finish. Rate it on a scale of 1 to 10, with 1 being totally unaroused and 10 as your orgasm. Don’t worry if you go over the edge a couple of times; it will give you a good sense of your level 10.
Next time, as you get up to a level 7 or 8, try to bring your arousal back down to a 4 or 5 by breathing deeply or by changing the stimulation. Don’t let your arousal wane too much; stay in an aroused state for several minutes, going back and forth between feeling highly aroused and less aroused. When you’ve done this a couple of times, you will have discovered those waves of pre-orgasmic bliss that most women experience but don’t necessarily notice during partner sex. You’ll also have tuned in to the subtle differences in your arousal level, which you’ll need later. It can be helpful to incorporate a vibrator or, if you want, a dildo. Vibrators tend to make orgasms easier for most women to achieve. If you don’t normally use one, practice until you’re comfortable. Then masturbate, drawing out your arousal as you have before. After you orgasm, give yourself a few seconds, but don’t let your arousal drop off completely. Try some indirect stimulation of the genitals, like rubbing the general area instead of directly touching the clitoris. “The number one thing I hear women complain about is that after one orgasm, their clitoris gets too sensitive for any more stimulation,” Solot says. “There's a simple solution to that one: Many women are surprised to find that if they give their clitoris a short break after the first orgasm – say, ten or twenty seconds or a minute – and then start the stimulation again, the period of hypersensitivity passes quickly. Then they can keep going and have another orgasm.” I say...While this lady thinks that this is purely a female blessing, my experience is that you can help a male achieve multi-orgasmic bliss if you follow the advice of just taking a very brief break and then begin oral stimulation, with the tongue or fingertip, shortly after a male orgasm. Read More here
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This service is FREE to those in my contact list.
There is a $10 fee if you are not in my contacts. You can send it to a special e-mail address I will e-mail that to anyone who needs it
Okay so I need your first name Middle initial, last name and the names of all citieis and states you have lived in.
That is it. _send e-mail, this offer expires in 24 hours and will be $10 to everyone. So Hurry.
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